carterxd:

You want to know whats in this constantly changing pokeball?
It is the feelings of a person getting lead on by another. The general sexist stereotype is that the guy leads the girl on, but that’s not true at all. Girls do it just as much as guys believe it or not. And now I’m about to write the details of being lead on. Bear with me, And read on your own time. 
Guys leading on girls: 
Guys who lead on girls have the intention of flirting with other girls in the process. It’s like they want more than they could really handle. Its downright fucked up and horrible, but sadly they do it. Other times its just because they lost interest in the girl and gradually don’t talk as much and eventually it all ends. Guys like these, to be honest are assholes who think they could own every girl in the world. They have this superior complex that they need to control. Its not kind at all. We live in the 21th century, not the 17th. But you need to understand, you guys who lead on girls destroys their overall feelings. You leave them feeling like they have been cheated of everything. Not to mention you just earned yourself a reputation for being the biggest asshole. Save your time don’t do that to a girl. Have a heart, you wouldn’t want that happening to you. If you really like a girl you need to tell her and be honest about it. You need to be clear about your motives. Don’t let her guess your feelings for her. Because if that happens then the relationship you wanted might not come. So be honest and don’t be a dick.
Girls who suspect a guy:
Test him! See how far he is willing to go. To be honest that sounds very difficult to do, but if you truly want to know you need to test him. Try making him commit more into the relationship. Ask him what he wants out of this relationship. If he seems like he is very unclear and ambiguous with his answer. You boot him. Be on the same level and communicate with each other. Don’t let him take control of your life. Don’t be the one waiting for him, let him wait for you! And if he doesn’t wait, GREAT you just  saved yourself from being heart broken. Goodjob. And if he is clear and concise, you girl, you have yourself a committed future boyfriend ! Sounds like a pretty good future right? Yeah it is. Go take cute pictures together and post them on fckyeahcutecouples or something. Jk only if you want to.
Now for girls who lead on guys: 
From countless accounts from girls who do this, and have told me about it and even from their friends who don’t do this, I’ve learned that its because they get so much attention from many guys. The role of superiority has switched. They feel as though they could get any guy, and that’s probably true because when girls have looks guys go tumbling for them. But girls they get picky. So in order to find the right one, they flirt with multiple guys. They always claim that “oh I’m going to stay single forever! Because guys are dicks!”, but in reality they probably do that to guys. The more attention they get, the bigger ego and confidence. That’s just the truth about girls like this. But you girls need to understand guys have feelings too. They aren’t objects, nor are they deserving of being lead on. Sometimes a guy really does like you, and when you make it seem like you want them when you really don’t? Cmon think about it. How would you feel if that happened to you? That’s just straight up wrong. Don’t be such a bitch. If you like a guy let it be known. You don’t have to fall into that sexist opinion that guys have to express first. DO IT IF YOU FEEL THAT WAY. If you don’t you’ll just find it much harder to get a real relationship. 
Guys who suspect girls: 
I’m going to be real with you. If you know a girl is hitting up a lot of dudes. Give it a shot to a certain point. When you realize that she is just talking to you for fun. Then you know that you need to LEAVE. Don’t give her the attention you used to give her. Don’t let her be the center of your life, when you are not the center of hers. Life still goes on when she is gone. You can also try testing her. Don’t talk to her for a while and see what happens. If she texts you saying “what happened?”. Then go back to talking to her until you are sure she is yours. Now if its all good and shes being real with you. Let your emotions come forth. It doesn’t matter who gets to does it first. Make yourself known to her life. Be the one for her, and she will return the feelings. Don’t allow confusion to happen in the relationship. Be clear. And enjoy your new future girlfriend. Go make your friends envious of your relationship. Also jk only if you want to. 
But in the end, both sides need to realize. When you lead someone on, you confused them so much. There is just so much confusion at that point, just like that constantly changing pokeball. Remember the pokeball when you, that’s how they feel

carterxd:

You want to know whats in this constantly changing pokeball?

It is the feelings of a person getting lead on by another. The general sexist stereotype is that the guy leads the girl on, but that’s not true at all. Girls do it just as much as guys believe it or not. And now I’m about to write the details of being lead on. Bear with me, And read on your own time.

Guys leading on girls:

Guys who lead on girls have the intention of flirting with other girls in the process. It’s like they want more than they could really handle. Its downright fucked up and horrible, but sadly they do it. Other times its just because they lost interest in the girl and gradually don’t talk as much and eventually it all ends. Guys like these, to be honest are assholes who think they could own every girl in the world. They have this superior complex that they need to control. Its not kind at all. We live in the 21th century, not the 17th. But you need to understand, you guys who lead on girls destroys their overall feelings. You leave them feeling like they have been cheated of everything. Not to mention you just earned yourself a reputation for being the biggest asshole. Save your time don’t do that to a girl. Have a heart, you wouldn’t want that happening to you. If you really like a girl you need to tell her and be honest about it. You need to be clear about your motives. Don’t let her guess your feelings for her. Because if that happens then the relationship you wanted might not come. So be honest and don’t be a dick.

Girls who suspect a guy:

Test him! See how far he is willing to go. To be honest that sounds very difficult to do, but if you truly want to know you need to test him. Try making him commit more into the relationship. Ask him what he wants out of this relationship. If he seems like he is very unclear and ambiguous with his answer. You boot him. Be on the same level and communicate with each other. Don’t let him take control of your life. Don’t be the one waiting for him, let him wait for you! And if he doesn’t wait, GREAT you just  saved yourself from being heart broken. Goodjob. And if he is clear and concise, you girl, you have yourself a committed future boyfriend ! Sounds like a pretty good future right? Yeah it is. Go take cute pictures together and post them on fckyeahcutecouples or something. Jk only if you want to.

Now for girls who lead on guys:

From countless accounts from girls who do this, and have told me about it and even from their friends who don’t do this, I’ve learned that its because they get so much attention from many guys. The role of superiority has switched. They feel as though they could get any guy, and that’s probably true because when girls have looks guys go tumbling for them. But girls they get picky. So in order to find the right one, they flirt with multiple guys. They always claim that “oh I’m going to stay single forever! Because guys are dicks!”, but in reality they probably do that to guys. The more attention they get, the bigger ego and confidence. That’s just the truth about girls like this. But you girls need to understand guys have feelings too. They aren’t objects, nor are they deserving of being lead on. Sometimes a guy really does like you, and when you make it seem like you want them when you really don’t? Cmon think about it. How would you feel if that happened to you? That’s just straight up wrong. Don’t be such a bitch. If you like a guy let it be known. You don’t have to fall into that sexist opinion that guys have to express first. DO IT IF YOU FEEL THAT WAY. If you don’t you’ll just find it much harder to get a real relationship.

Guys who suspect girls:

I’m going to be real with you. If you know a girl is hitting up a lot of dudes. Give it a shot to a certain point. When you realize that she is just talking to you for fun. Then you know that you need to LEAVE. Don’t give her the attention you used to give her. Don’t let her be the center of your life, when you are not the center of hers. Life still goes on when she is gone. You can also try testing her. Don’t talk to her for a while and see what happens. If she texts you saying “what happened?”. Then go back to talking to her until you are sure she is yours. Now if its all good and shes being real with you. Let your emotions come forth. It doesn’t matter who gets to does it first. Make yourself known to her life. Be the one for her, and she will return the feelings. Don’t allow confusion to happen in the relationship. Be clear. And enjoy your new future girlfriend. Go make your friends envious of your relationship. Also jk only if you want to.

But in the end, both sides need to realize. When you lead someone on, you confused them so much. There is just so much confusion at that point, just like that constantly changing pokeball. Remember the pokeball when you, that’s how they feel

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Posted on Saturday, 6 August
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    …what the fuckery is this. don’t make pokemon be about relationships -_- what’s inside that pokeball is a Pokemon, not...
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    I am very much confused , what does a pokeball have to do w/being lead on…
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